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Puppies over Politics

I’ve voted, but tomorrow many will go cast their ballot in what feels like the most contentious battle for President yet.  I know this is not the case, but it sure feels that way when I turn on the news, look at social media, or talk to anyone.  It is all that is on our minds.

I decided after I voted that I didn’t need to listen to any of this noise which was only causing me stress.  Pretty much everyone has made up their minds already – and yes, I do know people voting for both sides, and nothing I could say or do would change minds at this point.

In one of my stressed-out moments, I found myself scrolling Instagram and discovered that one of my favorite IG pages @chalkpondretrievers was expecting puppies.   For the past week and a half, I’ve been going on to IG simply to see if the puppies had been born.   They arrived on 10/31 and were fittingly an all-black litter.  I know I’m partial to black labrador retrievers because our dog is a black lab, but anyone I’ve told about this page has become quickly obsessed.   Is there anything cuter than puppies?   I think not.

The breeder jokingly said this morning that she was thinking of putting up a live stream camera of the puppies with her other phone.  Yes please, I thought!  What a good way to get my mind off the election!

It has been an education for me.  I never knew that the dog gestation period is around 65 days.  I had no idea that puppies were born blind, deaf, and needed their mom to stimulate their digestive systems to go the bathroom.   I never knew that they made such cute little squeaking sounds for the first few weeks of their lives.  Who knows what I’ll learn about puppies when I sign on later.   I do know that I’d have a hard time being a breeder because I don’t think I could part with any of those puppies.  None of this information is remotely helpful in my day-to-day life, but then again, the puppy cuteness overload has been a balm in an otherwise overwhelmingly stressful time.  Thank you @chalkpondretrievers and Harlee for your beautiful puppy distraction.

The Joy of Dogs

This is a love story. I became a first-time dog owner six years ago and had no idea how my life would change when our four-legged angel came into my life.  I didn’t grow up with pets unless you count hermit crabs, which I do not.  My parents had all sorts of reasons for our dog less deprivation– we traveled too much, it was too much work – but really, they never got over the loss of their dog Bonnie, who passed away right before my brother was born.

Wyatt Baxter came home with us on Feb 12, a perfect Valentine’s gift for the entire family.  He was 14 pounds of love and had I realized how quickly he’d grow, his paws would not have touched the ground for the first few months of his life. 

We hit the dog lottery with Wyatt.  He is sweet, calm, loving and the most mellow Labrador you’ll ever meet.  He doesn’t walk, he saunters.  He doesn’t bark.  He’s the dog park greeter, racing over to say hello to the other dog owners every morning.  I never thought I could love anyone as much as I love my husband and kids, but I was wrong.  They’ll be the first to tell you that he’s the favorite in the house.  If you met him, I’m sure you’d agree.

Most everyone understands the joy of dog ownership.  Without a doubt, they are angels on earth.  Wyatt has opened my world in a way that I never could have imagined, beyond the obvious unconditional love and companionship.  Every morning, after school drop off and before work, we hit the dog park.  My dog park friends are of all ages and from all walks of life.  At the dog park, in a town where political parties can divide, dogs unite.  Perhaps our members of Congress should come to Old Town to work things out – it’s hard to get annoyed with the “other side” when your dogs are playing together with abandon. 

We discuss the hard and happy at the park – the personal trials and the joys. We support one another, throw balls, feed treats, and discuss diets (for the dogs, not us).  There is something about spending every morning with people – in your messiest dog park clothes, hair unbrushed, makeup-free – that allows you to let your guard down.  We discuss it all, work through issues, and help each other out while the dogs play. Some of my best travel advice has originated at the dog park.    We’ve celebrated the birth of new babies, the death of loved ones, and mourned with those who have lost their beloved dogs. 

Many of my sentences begin, “My friend from the dog park…” because, in a time when I still mostly work remotely, the dog park is where I’m guaranteed to interact in person with someone outside of my family. 

Wyatt has taught me how to slow down and be present, reminded me to greet everyone, embrace dirty clothes as a badge of honor because that means a dog jumped on you, shown me that we all have more in common than our differences, and guaranteed that I’ll never be lonely.  

Thanks to Wyatt, I will be a dog owner for life.